How many times have you poured your energy into something—someone—that’s already dead? A relationship that’s rotting, a friendship that’s decayed, a situation that’s long past its expiration date?Here’s the cold, hard truth: you cannot revive what is already lifeless.
You cannot make someone love you, respect you, or treat you right just because you keep showing up, keep forgiving, keep waiting for them to change. You are not a magician. You are not a miracle worker. You are a human being who deserves reciprocity.
So why the hell are you still standing there with a watering can, hoping that one more drop of effort will suddenly make dead roots grow?You’re exhausted, and for what? To prove your worth to people who have already shown you they don’t care? To keep a connection that only drains you? Let it die.
Let it crumble into the past where it belongs. Because the more you hold on, the more you poison yourself with false hope.It’s time to stop begging for love in spaces that only offer you crumbs.
Stop lowering your standards just to keep someone around. Stop playing saviour to people who only bring storms into your life.
Let them drown in the chaos they create.You don’t need their validation. You need your peace.
So take that watering can, turn it over, and pour that energy into yourself. Watch how beautifully you bloom when you stop feeding the things that were never meant to grow.
Now go handle your business. You’ve got a life to build.